Mending with Gold: Transforming Grief, Loss & Trauma into Strength with Sylvia Moore Myers | #180

In this powerful episode of The Self-Care Goddess Podcast, I sit down with   Sylvia Moore Myers (@sylviamooremyers), author, grief recovery expert, and creator of the SCAR framework. With over 30 years of experience supporting people through profound loss, Sylvia helps us see our wounds not as weakness but as symbols of strength, beauty, and resilience.

She draws from her own unimaginable experiences including losing her grandmother in childhood, surviving years of bullying, burying her eldest brother, losing her son to murder, enduring an attack from a serial predator, and navigating PTSD. Through her story, she offers a raw and powerful understanding of what it truly means to mend rather than simply “get over” grief.

Inspired by the Japanese art of Kintsugi, Sylvia reminds us that our scars can be filled with gold, becoming more meaningful, more beautiful, and more connected than before.

✨ What You’ll Learn in This Heart-Opening Episode

✅ Why grief rewires the brain and reshapes your identity after loss

✅ The SCAR Framework which stands for Strength, Courage, Adaptability and Resilience, and how these qualities awaken naturally in us

✅ The difference between forgiveness and resolution, and why not everyone deserves forgiveness but everyone deserves emotional closure

✅ How trauma gets stored in the body, and why writing “letters you never send” can be life-changing

✅ Why silence, presence, and witness offer more comfort than advice or clichés at funerals

✅ The role of humor, joy, and hilarious resilience in trauma recovery, and why laughter is real medicine

✅ How to model healthy grieving for children in a world that avoids talking about death

🎧 Listen to Episode #180 on my website, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon (@AmazonMusicUK), or anywhere you tune in just search The Self-Care Goddess Podcast.

🙌🏽 Connect with Sylvia Moore Myers on LinkedIn: Sylvia (Tizzy) Moore Myers

🎥 Watch the full episode now on YouTube: Rita Savoia
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